YOGAKSHEMAM VAHAMYAHAM

One day, one friend asked another, 'How is it that you are always so happy? You have so much energy, and you never seem to get down.. '
With her eyes smiling, she said, ' I know the Secret!'
 'What secret is that? ' To which she replied, I'll tell you all about it, But you have to promise to Share the Secret with others.'
'The Secret is this: I have learned there is little I can do In my life that will make me truly happy I must depend on God to make Me happy and to meet my needs. When a need arises in my life, I have to trust God to supply According to HIS riches. I have learned most of the time I don ' t need half of what I think I do. He has never let me down. Since I learned that ' Secret ' , I am happy.'

The questioner's first thought was, ' That's too simple! ' But upon reflecting over her own life She recalled how she thought a bigger house Would make her happy, but it didn't! She thought a better paying job Would make her happy, but it hadn't. When did she realize her greatest happiness? Sitting on the floor with her grandchildren, Playing games, eating pizza or reading a story, A simple gift from God.

Now you know it too! We can't depend on people to make us happy. Only GOD in His infinite wisdom can do that. Trust HIM! And now I pass the Secret on to you! So once you get it, what will you do?
YOU have to tell someone the Secret, too!
That GOD in His wisdom will take care of YOU! But it ' s not really a secret... We just have to believe it and do it.. Really trust God! I just did and hope you will too.
"To have God in our side doesn't mean sailing on a boat with no storms, it means having a boat that no storm can sink!"

Inspiring quotes and facts

• If a drop of water falls in lake there is no identity.But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it shine like a pearl.so choose the best place where you would shine..

• Never expect things to happen..   struggle and make them happen.

never expect yourself to be given a good value create a value of your own....

• When your successful your well wishers know who you are when you are unsuccessful you know who your well wishers are...

• Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort in your life makes all the difference. .

THEIR TOP FIVE TIPS TO KEEPING THE ROMANCE ALIVE

Karam and Katari Chand are in the process of being confirmed as Guinness World Record holders for the world's longest marriage
In an age where few marriages endure the test of time, 107-year-old Karam and his wife Katari Chand, 100, are proof that happy ever after does exist.
The couple, who have   eight children and twenty eight grandchildren together,   have lived in wedded bliss for 87 years making them the world's longest married couple.
The pair say that the key to success is looking after each other in every way possible: ‘My trick is to make Katari laugh. I like to tell jokes and make her smile. Being funny is my way of being romantic.' says Karam.

    Always be faithful: always be faithful to one another. When you get married you commit to devoting your life to that person and even when the times are tough, don’t believe that the grass is greener...because it isn’t.
    Look after each other as best you can: if you want to grow old with your partner you have to make sure you always look after each other in every shape and form. Whether it is making a meal, holding your partners hand when crossing the road or being a shoulder to cry on when something goes wrong.
    Be tolerant of each other: everyone has bad habits or annoying traits. Whether it is leaving a towel on the floor or listening to the radio too loudly, you have to tolerate each other and realise that no one is perfect. Of course we irritate each other occasionally, but if you want to last nearly 90 years, learn to love bad habits or it won’t work.
    Listen to each other: the most important thing in a relationship is to listen. People don’t listen anymore because they are too busy with work and TV. Listen to your loved ones’ problems and concerns every day, because then you can help them overcome them and be happier. Also, it brings you closer together because you are the first port of call for each other when there is an issue in your life.
    Follow social and religious values: always make sure you follow social or religious values. Respect, care, cherish, love and value your partner – always treat them how you would want to be treated yourself.

ANSWER IF CAN

  1. When dog food is new and improved tasting, who
  tests it? (to be given a thought)
 2. If the "black box" flight recorder is never
  damaged during a plane crash, why isn't the whole
  airplane made out of that stuff? (very good thinking)
  3. Who copyrighted the copyright symbol? (who knows)
  4. Can you cry under water? (let me try)
  5. Why do people say, "you've been working like
  a dog" when dogs just sit around all day? (I think they
  meant something else)
  6. Why are the numbers on a calculator and a phone
  reversed? (God knows)
  7. Do fish ever get thirsty? (let me ask and tell)
  9. Why do birds not fall out of trees when they
  sleep?
  10. If corn oil is made from corn, and vegetable
  oils made from vegetables,then what is baby oil made
  from?
 (No comments)
  11. What should one call a male ladybird?
  (No comments)
  12. If a person suffered from amnesia and then was
  cured would they remember that they forgot?
 (can somebody help )
  13. Can you blow a balloon up under water? (yes u
  can)
  14. Why is it called a "building" when it is already
  built? (strange isn't it)
  15. If you were traveling at the speed of sound and
  you turned on your radio would you be able to hear
  it?
 (got to think scientifically)
  16. If you're traveling at the speed of light and
  you turn your headlights on, what happens?
  17. Why is it called a TV set when theres only one?
  (very nice)
  18. Why do most cars have speedometers that go up to
  at least 130 when you legally can't go that fast on
  any
 road?
  19. If drink drive is not allowed why the hell
  they have parking in Bars?

Feeling Depressed and coming out of it!!

You feel depressed when you lack happiness and optimism about the possibilities that you have and a constantly negative consciousness and vision is produced. You lose hope. In depression you lack an interest in things. You are sensitive to criticisms, even if they are very little. You feel sadness, impatience, a lack of perspectives. You try to reach satisfaction through material means, like, for example, eating too much, eating sweet things, etc.

You get depressed because you remember past errors; because you need the experience of love in life; because you have developed the habit of seeing only the negative in each situation, without sensing that a positive side exists. The imagination behaves in a negative way; it is weakening, depressing and even destructive. Nothing seems attractive to you and you feel unmotivated.

To get out of this state it is important to accept yourself; keep a mental state of a detached observer; don't allow the mind to cling to depressing thoughts and tune it into the positive aspects of life. Sometimes negativity and weakness have overwhelmed you to such a point that in order to get out of that state you need a "bombardment" of positivism: go on a spiritual retreat or holiday to a suitable destination; surround yourself by good company; attend a course of personal development; get out of that state in which you are closed into yourself. Take the step. Nobody can do it for you; only you have to do it for yourself!

We all think that Life should go along as WE THINK; but it will not happen. Many things will happen contrary to our wish and expectation. Adjustment is Life and we should learn to adjust with the same, to lead a happy life.